Benefits to Being a Freak

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“Be a freak. Normal is mind-numbing.” –Jamie Cearley, PhD

I am a freak. No matter what crowd or setting I find myself in I always seem to be the one who is more than a little odd. This used to bother me quite a bit more than it does these days. Yet, my husband still prods me to be more social on a regular basis. In a bit of awkward irony he just texted me, urging me to contact an out of town friend next week. Evidence, I don’t make this stuff up. As I age I am starting to see the underlying cause for this social paradigm of mine. It turns out there are some positive features to being a freak.

Although I am sure there are more, here are 3 benefits to being a freak I have found:
  • I am versatile. I should have realized this back in high school when my senior class voted me most versatile. Back then, I interpreted this award went to the biggest freak in the class and was a PC way of picking fun. Now I look back on this award as the biggest honor they could have bestowed. Why? Because it meant I was different. I was more than a one trick pony. I was a good student; the only one who could find anything in the microscope in biology lab. I was an All-State point guard for our Alabama State Championship basketball team. I was the only one in Home Economics class to sew a sweatshirt instead of an apron. I thought aprons were boring and useless. Yes I know, it turns out aprons are far more useful than sweatshirts. I was 16 years old. Cut me some slack. I hot rolled my hair every morning, and helped my dad do things like dig trenches, and fix cars at night. I can identify more tools than the finest mechanic. What’s more, this ability includes kitchen gadgets. As it turns out being versatile has helped this freak out quite a bit in life.
  • I am interesting to talk to, if you are willing to give it a try. More often than not the world looks different to me than to most people. Part of this is because I don’t see the world through Hollywood glasses. My basis for relating to the world is reality. You might say I am “out of the loop” on most topics. I know a little about current sports, have seen a small number of movies, watch little television, and know nothing about video games. I once had to hastily dust my television when company was coming over to watch an event it had been off for so long. Of course I would have dusted ahead of time had I either a clue or interest the event was happening. My husband often teases me saying I had a deprived childhood because we did not sit around and watch Planet of the Apes! He gasped the first time he realized I did not even know the show existed. Turns out we were watching the Lawrence Welk Show at our house. It is the only show I have vivid memories of watching on a regular basis as a child. What I do know is how to play,  in the dirt, rain, and snow. I know how to spend 14 hours a day in a swimming pool. People tell me I have an opinion on about every topic. It is true, I am well versed in topics ranging from how to clone a mouse, which I understand few people care to discuss, train a horse, roast a turkey, or what to do when your car alternator is going dead and you are driving. I also enjoy reading about politics, religion, money management, nature, and science. The sad thing is most people either aren’t interested or cannot engage in a meaningful conversation for any length of time. Hey, is that a Pokémon over there? Hence, I am a freak.
  • I am true to self. In spite of immense pressure to conform I remain a freak. In case you know me or have looked at my website and are thinking, “I don’t see how she could feel like a freak,” here are a few points to consider:

I do not have children. Most people my age do.

I have a PhD in Biochemistry and Molecular Genetics. Most people do not.

I am a woman who does not do my nails or wear much makeup if any. I have never had a manicure, pedicure or spa treatment nor do I want to. The thought of a stranger touching me makes me cringe.

I don’t wear jewelry other than a wedding band.

My favorite all-time birthday presents include a battery powered hedge-trimmer, and a small shovel.

I like to fix and take care of my own stuff when I can. This includes farm machinery, mowers, appliances, and a host of other things.

I so dig digging. Except when it’s hot. I had to put in a disclaimer in case my dad reads this.

I don’t believe in spending money I don’t have.

I own one purse and it was a free gift for purchasing some riding boots.

On an on it goes…

I will never be what my culture thinks of as typical. I refuse to fit in.

This post started out being my proclamation of freakishness to the world. Then I started to think, I bet everyone feels this way to some degree. Has our culture convinced us there is some kind of strict mold into which normal fits? Are we all pressured by thinking we are to look, act, and be this or that? I wonder; does everyone feel like a freak?

Could it be we are a world of freaks struggling to change so we fit in? Would we be doing ourselves a favor to scrap any hope of normal and be our true selves? I say yes. I choose freak.

As Albert Einstein said, “The woman who follows the crowd will usually go no further than the crowd. The woman who walks alone is likely to find herself in places no one has ever been before.”

How Strong is Your Will to be a freak?

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4 thoughts on “Benefits of Being a Freak

  • March 23, 2017 at 10:23 pm
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    Before I got to the end, I was thinking, We must be from the same mold! I’m not a Dr of anything, but I also never Had my my nails done or had a massage. One thing about getting older is you don’t feel the need to conform as strongly! 😃

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  • March 23, 2017 at 3:13 pm
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    I love that you are a freak! Maybe because I’m halfway freaky myself. 😱

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  • March 23, 2017 at 1:56 pm
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    You might not wear jewelry but I happen to know that you like to wear fancy, blingy belt buckles!!

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    • March 23, 2017 at 8:54 pm
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      Yep. Got that right. Love ’em.

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